Use 2 languages (Indo-Eng) is open minded

 Use 2 languages (Indo-Eng) is open minded

Expressing opinion with two languages looks open minded. It is no longer strange if now we communicate in two languages. It is very good if we become bilingual, but what is the connection between speaking or arguing in two languages with open-minded?. Actually, when people use two languages when they are speak they are improving their English it does not matter whether the grammar is correct or not, the important thing is that it is clear and easy for people to understand. Even when using two languages when debate and you lose, you will lose with classy. But there are people who join in, so that their opinion do not match with the discussion, it’s very forced just to look open-minded. Even many of them just want to look smart if they express their opinion two languages. They feel they look smart and always feel victorious when arguing.

People who use two languages when expressing their opinion think they look smart. It shows if people who speak two languages are smarter than people who only speak one language, but not necessarily bilingual people are open-minded. This is in line with Jason Baehr (2011) who mention open-minded person as one who characteristically moves beyond or temporarily sets aside his own doxastic commitments in order to give a fair and impartial hearing to the intellectual opposition. People who are open-minded people who can accept other people’s opinions without dropping them, respect each others opinions. Here is where open-mindedness as a critical virtue enters the picture. According to Cohen, ‘‘there is more to open-mindedness than its role in epistemic pursuits’’ (ibid). Usually people who are open-minded have a very critical mind and are quite broad-minded.

They will feel like they won the debate even though they actually lost. Lose with classy. Those who have an opinion in 2 languages will be happy and will feel very smart when other people call them open minded even though sometimes their opinions cannot be understood by everyone who reads it or hears it.  Most of them just show off their intelligence by using words that many people still do not understand in order to still look smart. For example when people argue and it ends with "cmiiw", people will read "cemiwiw" which means the same as a joke. whereas "cmiiw" is "correct me if i am wrong" which means if his statement is wrong, you can interrupt. Even sadly, there are still people who interpret “lol” not as “laugh out load” but instead into “tolol” which means “bodoh” in Indonesian. Usually people who misinterpret like that are only used as jokes, but if they continue to be used as jokes it will become a bad habit and can embarrass themselves too.

All in all, open minded is being able to accept everyone's opinion without demeaning the opinions of others. An open-minded has nothing to do with how much language to use when expressing opinion or debating. And if you want to express your opinion using one language it’s okay there’s no need to feel stupid or embarrassed as long as your opinion does not stray far from the topic being discussed.

A happy family

 A happy family

Everyone wants to have a happy family. one of them is me who wants to have a happy family someday. At this time maybe I live with my family who may be quite happy. I am happy living with my family but maybe my family is not included in a happy family. Several times my mom always felt that she was not successful in raising her child, but I feel that my mom has succeeded in raising her children well.

And I finally know, why my mom said like that.  After my mom told me everything about my sisters, and I feel like its not her fault. Thi is just my sister misunderstood what my mom said. Sometimes I feel less noticed by my mom, even though usually the last child is the most spoiled, but I'm not like that. Sometimes I feel sad being treated differently from my siblings. From there I felt different from my brothers. Many say I am different from my siblings, and some even say that maybe I am not the real child of my father and mom.

I still remember when I was in junior high school, I asked for a smartphone because learning was already using "edmodo", but my mom didn't give me a smartphone. It was very different when my sister asked for a laptop and my mom immediately bought it. I'm still treated like that until now, to buy something I have to collect the money first. And now my mom always says that she regrets spoiling her first child too much. But, I always convincing my mom so that she didn't always feel that way, and I always said that the mom had raised her children well.

As I said earlier that I am happy living in this family, but my family may not include in  a happy family. The behavior my mom gave me made me feel better. Because from there I know that if I want something, there must be some effort, and without realizing it, it makes me a person who is not spoiled and does not depend on others. Someday I want build a happy family and treat children fairly. I wish I can.

How I spend my holiday

How I spend my holiday

         Holidays are things we wait for after getting tired of working or studying, usually we spend the holidays going out with family or friends, but now we can't do it because it's a pandemic. I just want to tell how I spent my holiday in the pandemic. Usually I spent my time watching drama Korean or Netflix, I do that because after studying I feel tired and I watch movies or dramas to get rid of that tired. I would recommended to you for ongoing Korean drama on Netflix and I am rating that too, first you must watch Extracuricullar (7/10), itaewon class (9/10), the king : eternal monarch (8/10), and last but not least it’s okay to not be okay (7/10). Those are some dramas that I recommend to you, actually there are many dramas with good stories but maybe that's enough to watch on holidays.

I didn’t just spend my time with Netflix, I learned to apply makeup and learned more makeup look. I learned how to apply Arabian makeup look and I learned to apply makeup art. But even though I love makeup, I never forget to use skincare to keep my face clean. I always routine use masks and use skincare every morning and night. This is very useful for facial skin to avoid acne and other skin problems.

Spend my holiday with get enough sleep. Usually I can't get enough sleep while studying, I'm always worried about assignments given by the lecturers and about deadlines. Therefore holiday is the best time to rest for me, and I feel my body can relax when the holidays arrive. And don’t forget to sport regularly as stretching the muscles so that the body is not cramped or stiff.

And the last I spend my holiday with social media. Usually I just scrolled posts on Instagram, and watch their stories. And sometimes I post my makeup results to my Instagram account, and I’m happy with their reaction. I also spend my holidays with webtoons, I like reading webtoons because of their interesting stories and good pictures. I have some recommended webtoon titles that you should read too, webtoons with good pictures and very interesting stories, You should read the wonderwall, because this webtoon has an excellent story and excellent images too. Also read the secret of angel, a webtoon that tells about a girl's business who wants to look beautiful. oh you have to read rumors has it, this is a very good webtoon in my opinion but in this webtoon there are harsh words and violent scenes, but I like stories like that. I highly recommend those three webtoon titles for you to read.

Maybe that's just how i spend my vacation. but everyone is different in spending their vacation time right, so I only give a few recommendations for enjoying vacation time during the pandemic. But actually I want to spend my holiday going outside with family or friends, but this situation doesn't allow to do many things outside the house. So stay safe and stay health.

The most important thing in swimming

 The most important thing in swimming

Swimming is a sport that moves the whole body. You have to  know what is the most important thing in swimming. The first thing you should know is warming up, warming up is important to increase oxygen flow. You have to know how to regulate the flow of oxygen in the water. And warming up can avoiding muscle cramps, at least you cross body leg swing, forward lunge and stretch out your arms. Movements like that can avoid injury.

The second is exhalation technique, you should know how to breathing technique in the water. When you take a breath don’t raise your head, and start on one side, don’t forget to breathe constanly. and you have to know about technique of exhale in the water. You can exhale through your mouth or nose. When your face in the water you should be exhaling all the time. There are still many swimmer who do this technique wrong. There are still swimmer who exhale into the air while swimming, if the swimmer exhales the air the whole body will feel stiff and it can causes injury.

Another thing you should know is exhale constanly. if you hold your breath in the water it will stiff your body and you hold CO2 in your body. The reason why you should exhale constanly is it will relax your body and is a fundamental of a good freestyle technique. So you should catch exhale in the water constanly and continuosly.

You should learn to sink to train your breath in the water and try to relax your body while swimming. You have get used to water of various depths. You should even try to sit at the bottom of the pool and watch the bubbles as you pop, or you can try lying on your back in the pool. For beginner swimmers you have to practise a lot of drowning, you can start by squatting at the bottom of the pool. This should be used as this will help you relax while in the water.

You must do swimming style correctly. You have to do the swimming style correctly, because if you do the wrong swimming style it can cause injury to your muscles. If you don’t want to get injury you can start from the easiest styles. For the beginner freestyle is the first.